in a hurry but ready for adventure
just a quick pop-in for today...
been busy.
scan lab this morning (blew through the 40 image final in 25 minutes. twice.).
had lunch with my friend from the other side of the bay (garlic breath really makes me not want to kiss you).
went by my carpet guy's house for a beer and some laughs (that's all).
came home to pick up the girls and then go pick up the big girls boyfriend (ugh.).
went by mom's to help her do last minute things before she needed to get ready for the company holiday party at their house tonight (gotta be totally p0litically c0rrect there since my stepdad employs persons of color [all colors], gays, and everyone else).
i should be taking the big girl to the mall - tomorrow at church, they are having a formal dance and she has nothing to wear!!! (she's too young to be in a formal dress anyway!).
the husband has been fishing all day - just called not too long ago to let me know they were on their way home (with 2 buddys that are in town for the football game tomorrow. yes, another perk from the club level).
i encouraged him to stop and eat on his way home because i'm not cooking egg sandwiches for everyone.
and last night at therapy, the deal that is supposed to include the family - he didn't make it.
this morning, i confirmed my suspicions from last night - he was drunk.
our appointment was at 5:30 and the msg he left me at 6:30 was that he was still an hour away taking pictures of his new listing (6 acres with a shitty house) and he didn't think he was going to be able to make it.
this morning when i was up with the dogs before the sun came up, i did the jealous wife thing and dug through his wallet.
at 18:17:14 (that translates to 6:17 and 14 seconds, right?) his debit card was swiped at a cigar bar by his office (two miles from our house) for $74.
it was hammer time.
we have an appointment the day after the holiday with the therapist - just me and husband - and that's when i'm going to let him have it.
but for now, i need to finish printing photos for holiday cards and get them in the damn mail!
misery - i'm thinking about you.
xo.
been busy.
scan lab this morning (blew through the 40 image final in 25 minutes. twice.).
had lunch with my friend from the other side of the bay (garlic breath really makes me not want to kiss you).
went by my carpet guy's house for a beer and some laughs (that's all).
came home to pick up the girls and then go pick up the big girls boyfriend (ugh.).
went by mom's to help her do last minute things before she needed to get ready for the company holiday party at their house tonight (gotta be totally p0litically c0rrect there since my stepdad employs persons of color [all colors], gays, and everyone else).
i should be taking the big girl to the mall - tomorrow at church, they are having a formal dance and she has nothing to wear!!! (she's too young to be in a formal dress anyway!).
the husband has been fishing all day - just called not too long ago to let me know they were on their way home (with 2 buddys that are in town for the football game tomorrow. yes, another perk from the club level).
i encouraged him to stop and eat on his way home because i'm not cooking egg sandwiches for everyone.
and last night at therapy, the deal that is supposed to include the family - he didn't make it.
this morning, i confirmed my suspicions from last night - he was drunk.
our appointment was at 5:30 and the msg he left me at 6:30 was that he was still an hour away taking pictures of his new listing (6 acres with a shitty house) and he didn't think he was going to be able to make it.
this morning when i was up with the dogs before the sun came up, i did the jealous wife thing and dug through his wallet.
at 18:17:14 (that translates to 6:17 and 14 seconds, right?) his debit card was swiped at a cigar bar by his office (two miles from our house) for $74.
it was hammer time.
we have an appointment the day after the holiday with the therapist - just me and husband - and that's when i'm going to let him have it.
but for now, i need to finish printing photos for holiday cards and get them in the damn mail!
misery - i'm thinking about you.
xo.
2 Comments:
Right now I'm thinking that you have come a long, long way. And I'm proud of you.
You really are stronger than you think.
so, “ugh”... is that what my first girlfriend’s mom thought when she picked me (a roguish 21 year old) up with her daughter (a demure 19 year old, whom i was head-over-heels for)? yes, she chauffered us...i didn’t have a car at the time. she certainly didn’t act like i was an “ugh” to her... in fact i got the feeling that she’d rather i was dating her than her daughter...;-)~ but her daughter was my first true love...and yes...the one that got away...my one true regret in life...;-(
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